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    Over the last few days, its become outstandingly apparent all of the reasons i should have this procedure done. mind you this is not something that hasn't crossed my mind before.

    Growing up in a family purely negative towards women.
    My father: clipped right after i was born
    my half brother: clipped as soon as he could- no kids
    my uncle: clipped after 2 kids

    my best friend- horrible situation with his daughter & his "baby momma"
    my brother-an even worse situation then my best friend-with his daughter.

    given the circumstances & all of the women i've encountered. i've never yet met one decent woman who isn't devious enough in nature to run off & screw me over in the end. As every man here knows in the end - the man is always responsible.
    In order to bypass the law you must be "fixed" in terms.

    now, not saying that i wouldn't be a good parent or that i don't want kids a big "IF" i was ever to meet the right(non devious) woman. & decided i would have kids. my nature of being is to provide my children with the utmost a father could. which would compose of significant incoming monetary revenue. something i currently never forsee befalling me.
    To further continue my reasonings, I believe it to be in my best interests to avoid giving ANY woman power over my life & finances for 18 years to live their life with my child as they would see fit(disregarding my above strict nature). or hold power to woe my will by controlling me with fear of doing so.

    Given i see this as releasing yet another one of the pressures in my life directly correlated to all things stressful & posing for a brighter more possible future.

    for anyone who wishes to post about it not being reversible or the chances slim. Please research the truth out there & inform yourself of the other available options if success is not posing a promising outlook.

    Please treat this thread accordingly, i do take this personally & utmost at heart. it is a very serious matter.

    Regards,

    Ryan
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    #2
    i think this is a good idea. if i was having sex up here i would definately pursue it. this way you have no liability if you get a baby daddy lawsuit, and when the time is right you can get it reversed and have some kids. i would freeze a sample though so that you have a back up if something does go wrong

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      #3
      I really do believe you're doing the right thing to a point. I wish I had this done with my ex. My situation with my daughter is like your best friends. No I don't know what he's going thru but I can tell you if you ever get into a ****ty situation with an ex that has had your kid they're never much different. I luv the **** out of my daughter but it sux that I can't get a good relationship with her because her mother doesn't answer the phone or make her call me back. Then there's the whole distance thing.

      I give you credit for doing this. Kids are a huge responcibility and require quite a lot of your funds. I think the statistic says 1/4 of your check basically goes torwards kid(look at the progress of my car lol, takes a lot longer to do stuff). My son and wife now is what I should've waited for. Good luck Ryan.
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      Originally posted by jay
      .....they totally underestimated the number of gearheads such as myself that have families but refuse to grow the hell up and stop playing with cars, or that otherwise see the utility of having 4 doors. Obviously I ain't alone, as there are a helluva lotta sti and evo here. Bueler? Beuler? Mazda? Mazda?

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        #4
        They stopped makin condoms? Maybe I should do some reading before putting in any more info on the matter as to not offend anyone.

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          #5
          condoms do break sometimes, just in case you didnt know
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            #6
            They do make the morning after pill . That can get costly though if you have to keep buying them lol.

            Let me ask this question Ryan. Why do you want to do this? The real reason. (I hope this don't sound bad) Do you not want to wear a condom or pull out? I know I like to finish in but I will say this, I've finished 2 times inside and poof, I have 2 kids. The only other times I've completed inside were when they were prego. I haven't wornn a condom in about 12 years lol and just do the "pull out and spray" and I haven't had any little kiddies from doing that. So that's why I have to ask why do you really want this done. S
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            Originally posted by jay
            .....they totally underestimated the number of gearheads such as myself that have families but refuse to grow the hell up and stop playing with cars, or that otherwise see the utility of having 4 doors. Obviously I ain't alone, as there are a helluva lotta sti and evo here. Bueler? Beuler? Mazda? Mazda?

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              #7
              I don't trust women- thats simple enough isn't it chris.
              Pox you may have gotten the wrong idea about me please don't regard me as a person who's irresponsible, condom's are not fail proof like jon had mentioned.

              I've had several close calls with condoms breaking & ripping as im sure most folks have. even tho i use spermicidal ones its a trust issue. id like to have more then one option on my side a condom is only one afterall.

              Oh, & furthermore chris, i never lay my load in a girl. I've done it years back in the past with an ex & been lucky with the aid of birthcontrol, hindsight is 20-20 & i know better now.
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                #8
                Make the female partner sign a waver. "If child results from sexual activities it is no way shape or form any of my responsibility."

                =]

                Is a child the only reason you want to have this done? If it is, stop having sex. Wait for the right girl. Im sure you can manage to have a reasonable relationship with a girl without sex, and if you cant, its not worth it to have sex with so person anyways. =\

                Excuse my ignorance if I am still not comprehending whats going on yet. lol

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                  #9
                  Originally posted by Pox View Post
                  Is a child the only reason you want to have this done? If it is, stop having sex. Wait for the right girl. Im sure you can manage to have a reasonable relationship with a girl without sex, and if you cant, its not worth it to have sex with so person anyways. =\

                  Excuse my ignorance if I am still not comprehending whats going on yet. lol
                  Girl and no sex? Thats easier said then done. Thats like having a 400 hp EGT and just looking at it and not "riding in her"!

                  PS: Here are important condom "facts" (might as well be facts because they hold up true usually).

                  1) Everyone that ever had a condom break wasn't using a trojan. Lifestyles are well crap. Each time somebody said it broke i brought up the name lifestyles and they were like OMFG how did you know!?
                  2) Bring your own condoms. Girls apparently think they are funny when they poke holes in them, etc.
                  3) This next one should be common sense but if not here we go. If you put the condom on and it slingshots across the room (or into her face/eye) its the WRONG SIZE!
                  4) TROJAN!!! TROJAN!!! TROJAN!!!

                  PS: My gf also keeps bringing up me being "clipped" but. She always says IF you want to, etc. lol girls are funny that way
                  Last edited by Tazman2; 12-24-2007, 10:22 AM.
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                    #10
                    Kind of a tangent, but use condoms even if you get a vasectomy. STDs don't care whether you are clipped or not. I'll second what Tazman said, a quality condom is cheap insurance. Don't use dollar store condoms http://www.gamingupdate.com/forums/a...hp/t-8741.html , or you'll need the dollar store preggo tests
                    Last edited by cojsl; 12-24-2007, 11:09 AM.
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                      #11
                      Originally posted by cojsl View Post
                      Kind of a tangent, but use condoms even if you get a vasectomy. STDs don't care whether you are clipped or not.
                      Good point!
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                        #12
                        nnnnooooooooo!!!!!!!!!
                        dont clip your manbits.
                        after that, all youll have to stake you place in the manly ranks is your car. (do you want that?)

                        plus, think of the guys that have it done. havnt they lost there spirit? their will?

                        do they try extra hard to be manly, like cus and drink allot?

                        think of the look on your dogs face after you take him to get neutered.
                        did he enjoy it?

                        no

                        he didnt, nagguh wants his balls back.

                        balls are supposed to be there.

                        they even make prosthetic balls now for the guys that get it done, then realize what a douche they were for it.

                        do you want rubber balls?

                        rubber balls!!!

                        no. the answer is no, u dont want rubber balls.

                        besides youll never be in another bukkake film in your life.

                        maybe your worried about getting a girl pregnant that lies about birth control.
                        that is your fault if you do.

                        girls are bread to lie, just pull out and splash your victory juice all over her face. (youll be surprised to find out how many of them really like this)

                        is peter north clipped? no, he keeps the bichez in check with a firehose of cum all over those unworthy porn stars.



                        i meen, do what makes you happy.
                        /rant
                        Next!
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                          #13
                          5l1mm- I didn't see a so can't tell if you're joking or not (I assume you are) if so, funny
                          If not (and so others don't get bad info).... (pulls up soap box) Vasectomy just means clipping the tube that allows sperm to get from your testicles to your ejaculate. It is not being neutered (removal of testicles) and does not affect hormone levels or ejaculate amount.
                          More important, pulling out is not effective birth control. there is sperm in other pre-ejaculate fluid. If you depend on pulling out, you've just been lucky. This concludes todays sex-ed lesson (steps off soap box)
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                            #14
                            jeez man, you ruined my entire rant with your stupid logic, and facts.
                            Next!
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                              #15
                              wait?.....there are women in WI? wow I thought there were only hicks and snow
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