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    #61
    Oh, I forgot to say something important about this topic so it's another long post. I can't believe I forgot. For some really strange reason, you get sexually better after a vasectomy. No, I don't mean if you are getting fewer and fewer erections with age that you get more or that your orgasms get better or any improvements like that. You also don't have sex more frequently. Well, maybe just a tad bit more.

    The improvement is in your passion and desire when you do have sex. It's hard to explain but you know how the longer you've been with your partner the less you want to kiss her, the less you grab her tits, the less you grab her ass, etc, etc? You kind of just want to put it in, get your orgasm and finish and that's it. Well, this vasectomy changed that. She was very happy with the improvement.

    By the way, she's now my ex-wife since my first post and has been since March 2008. I suddenly wanted to kiss her neck again. I would grab her ass. I would reach from behind and grab her breasts with both hands. I would suck her breasts. I'd bite her butt. All stuff I had stopped doing figuring it was due to our marriage going towards disaster as well as it happening as it does with most men with time. Uh, sorry if I'm making this sound pornographic--just trying to make the point clear.

    I couldn't help it. It was the same during the actual penetration. She loved the passion involved. I recall later having a conversation with her where she asked if I had been cheating on her with other women that were teaching me things or something. I asked her why and she said it was because I had gotten better in bed. I had not been cheating. I told her that I had noticed it too and that it was right after getting the vasectomy. She believed me because she said a family member of hers told her that her husband had gotten better sexually after his vasectomy as well.

    I thought this was a very important story to put on this thread. I'm glad you bumped it for more comments. Mind you, I got more passionate and sexy with a woman who was making my life a mess and caused me to divorce her. She's a bloodsucking parasite but my sexual urges, before the operation needed to be release so I kept having sex with her. Love was no longer involved. The need only got more passion-filled after the surgery.

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      #62
      Very Good post Manny,

      I concur to the romantics of the side effects....you had the same reaction as I after I got the clip-snip-n-sizzle. But now I just don't get laid, and be damned it I buy puiddy, I ain't doin that!

      Sunrise is looking awfully good these days! And Sundown too!!




      Originally posted by mannydingo View Post
      Oh, I forgot to say something important about this topic so it's another long post. I can't believe I forgot. For some really strange reason, you get sexually better after a vasectomy. No, I don't mean if you are getting fewer and fewer erections with age that you get more or that your orgasms get better or any improvements like that. You also don't have sex more frequently. Well, maybe just a tad bit more.

      The improvement is in your passion and desire when you do have sex. It's hard to explain but you know how the longer you've been with your partner the less you want to kiss her, the less you grab her tits, the less you grab her ass, etc, etc? You kind of just want to put it in, get your orgasm and finish and that's it. Well, this vasectomy changed that. She was very happy with the improvement.

      By the way, she's now my ex-wife since my first post and has been since March 2008. I suddenly wanted to kiss her neck again. I would grab her ass. I would reach from behind and grab her breasts with both hands. I would suck her breasts. I'd bite her butt. All stuff I had stopped doing figuring it was due to our marriage going towards disaster as well as it happening as it does with most men with time. Uh, sorry if I'm making this sound pornographic--just trying to make the point clear.

      I couldn't help it. It was the same during the actual penetration. She loved the passion involved. I recall later having a conversation with her where she asked if I had been cheating on her with other women that were teaching me things or something. I asked her why and she said it was because I had gotten better in bed. I had not been cheating. I told her that I had noticed it too and that it was right after getting the vasectomy. She believed me because she said a family member of hers told her that her husband had gotten better sexually after his vasectomy as well.

      I thought this was a very important story to put on this thread. I'm glad you bumped it for more comments. Mind you, I got more passionate and sexy with a woman who was making my life a mess and caused me to divorce her. She's a bloodsucking parasite but my sexual urges, before the operation needed to be release so I kept having sex with her. Love was no longer involved. The need only got more passion-filled after the surgery.
      David
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        #63
        Originally posted by riverrunnernky View Post
        I concur to the romantics of the side effects....you had the same reaction as I after I got the clip-snip-n-sizzle. But now I just don't get laid, and be damned it I buy puiddy, I ain't doin that!

        Sunrise is looking awfully good these days! And Sundown too!!
        You really didn't have to include that humongous quote of mine to reply to it since you answered right below it. Well, anyway, I have no scientific backing of it but I think that since the testicles seem to sense that there isn't an "asking" for their sperm anymore, that the body seems to think it needs to increase testosterone or dihydrotestosterone and, therefore, does so. It's either testosterone or some other agent in the body that works on our brains sexually. There's got to be a biological reason. The testes continue to make sperm but it's absorbed by the body since it has nowhere to escape out of the sac. It's obvious some kind of change occurs and it's NOT just psychological. I say that because it should be the other way around. Many men fear they will lose sexuality from doing this. Instead, men either report no change or the kind of change I typed about here.

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          #64
          ^ freakin sweet!
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            #65
            Originally posted by bpt323 View Post
            ^ freakin sweet!
            What's sweet? The thought of my testicles?

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              #66
              hardy har har
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                #67
                Originally posted by mannydingo View Post
                What's sweet? The thought of my testicles?



                After this 1 is born shes getting her **** ripped out and I think I'm getting snipped. Double protection FTW
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                .....they totally underestimated the number of gearheads such as myself that have families but refuse to grow the hell up and stop playing with cars, or that otherwise see the utility of having 4 doors. Obviously I ain't alone, as there are a helluva lotta sti and evo here. Bueler? Beuler? Mazda? Mazda?

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                  #68
                  Haa Hah...

                  You said sac, you bag head Manny!!


                  Originally posted by mannydingo View Post
                  You really didn't have to include that humongous quote of mine to reply to it since you answered right below it. Well, anyway, I have no scientific backing of it but I think that since the testicles seem to sense that there isn't an "asking" for their sperm anymore, that the body seems to think it needs to increase testosterone or dihydrotestosterone and, therefore, does so. It's either testosterone or some other agent in the body that works on our brains sexually. There's got to be a biological reason. The testes continue to make sperm but it's absorbed by the body since it has nowhere to escape out of the sac. It's obvious some kind of change occurs and it's NOT just psychological. I say that because it should be the other way around. Many men fear they will lose sexuality from doing this. Instead, men either report no change or the kind of change I typed about here.
                  David
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                    #69
                    Originally posted by me19875 View Post
                    just make her get an IUD
                    wow crazy to think how old this thread is. anyways just saw it and thought i'd change my previous response from over 2 YEARS ago. I am now seriously considering getting snipped in the near future for many of the same reasons as you. i HATE the idea that the chick is ultimately responsible for getting pregnant (the pill). i've taken 2 allergy pills a day since grade school, i know damned well how easy it is to forget to take a pill. i wouldn't even trust myself to take birth control. when i was young i used to always think "i'll probably eventually want kids" but the older i get the more and more i realize i REALLY REALLY don't want kids ever. and i really don't wanna get stuck in a relationship that's not meant to be because of one. plus if i ever change my mind, whatever, i could possibly get it reversed or adopt. that risk is well worth taking.

                    this feeling became concrete after 2 very close friends got their girlfriends pregnant in a weeks time a few months ago. 1 got lucky and convinced her to get it aborted, the other didn't. I would really truely HATE to be in his situation.

                    i was wondering is there any update to this story? did you ever go through with the procedure?
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                      #70
                      We guys need to stick together on this subject, ladies belittle the area of the subject as well neglect it.

                      I had the Vasectomy 18 years ago, and now have a little problem withe boy on the right.

                      Seems the vas deffrens has almost detatched from the testicle....weird!

                      Kentucky is getting bombed with rain and hard at this time.
                      David
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                        #71
                        Originally posted by riverrunnernky View Post
                        Yet it was ok for them to talk to my brother about sex, but not me
                        As a parent, there are factors involved in why I might say something to one child and not to the other. One child may be so responsible in one area that I feel he/she doesn't need explanation while the other one does. Also, I made some mistakes with my first daughter that I won't be making with my second and the same with my son. In your case, it may have been another factor.

                        Originally posted by riverrunnernky View Post
                        You said sac, you bag head Manny!!
                        Hey, I missed that post back when you posted that back then. I hate when I proof-read and still manage miss a word. Anyway, here's payback(see below). It's riding, not ridding.

                        Originally posted by riverrunnernky View Post
                        My people made up more stories to bypass what the cows were doing ridding each other.
                        Last edited by mannydingo; 12-11-2010, 08:56 AM.

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                          #72
                          old post is OLD!

                          Don't want kids? Don't have sex.

                          Want sex without the possibility of having kids? Come out of the closet....




                          --sarge

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                            #73
                            no good sarge. no good. women are keniving / deceiving. many in WI just want a free ride.
                            F- that. im not paying for some broad to sit on her ass & collect off of me.

                            not gay either, so not much other options
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                              #74
                              well, have her sit on your face, and collect off of her!

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                                #75
                                Option1: tell her to LRN2 swallow

                                Option 2: buttsecks
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