Over the last few days, its become outstandingly apparent all of the reasons i should have this procedure done. mind you this is not something that hasn't crossed my mind before.
Growing up in a family purely negative towards women.
My father: clipped right after i was born
my half brother: clipped as soon as he could- no kids
my uncle: clipped after 2 kids
my best friend- horrible situation with his daughter & his "baby momma"
my brother-an even worse situation then my best friend-with his daughter.
given the circumstances & all of the women i've encountered. i've never yet met one decent woman who isn't devious enough in nature to run off & screw me over in the end. As every man here knows in the end - the man is always responsible.
In order to bypass the law you must be "fixed" in terms.
now, not saying that i wouldn't be a good parent or that i don't want kids a big "IF" i was ever to meet the right(non devious) woman. & decided i would have kids. my nature of being is to provide my children with the utmost a father could. which would compose of significant incoming monetary revenue. something i currently never forsee befalling me.
To further continue my reasonings, I believe it to be in my best interests to avoid giving ANY woman power over my life & finances for 18 years to live their life with my child as they would see fit(disregarding my above strict nature). or hold power to woe my will by controlling me with fear of doing so.
Given i see this as releasing yet another one of the pressures in my life directly correlated to all things stressful & posing for a brighter more possible future.
for anyone who wishes to post about it not being reversible or the chances slim. Please research the truth out there & inform yourself of the other available options if success is not posing a promising outlook.
Please treat this thread accordingly, i do take this personally & utmost at heart. it is a very serious matter.
Regards,
Ryan
Growing up in a family purely negative towards women.
My father: clipped right after i was born
my half brother: clipped as soon as he could- no kids
my uncle: clipped after 2 kids
my best friend- horrible situation with his daughter & his "baby momma"
my brother-an even worse situation then my best friend-with his daughter.
given the circumstances & all of the women i've encountered. i've never yet met one decent woman who isn't devious enough in nature to run off & screw me over in the end. As every man here knows in the end - the man is always responsible.
In order to bypass the law you must be "fixed" in terms.
now, not saying that i wouldn't be a good parent or that i don't want kids a big "IF" i was ever to meet the right(non devious) woman. & decided i would have kids. my nature of being is to provide my children with the utmost a father could. which would compose of significant incoming monetary revenue. something i currently never forsee befalling me.
To further continue my reasonings, I believe it to be in my best interests to avoid giving ANY woman power over my life & finances for 18 years to live their life with my child as they would see fit(disregarding my above strict nature). or hold power to woe my will by controlling me with fear of doing so.
Given i see this as releasing yet another one of the pressures in my life directly correlated to all things stressful & posing for a brighter more possible future.
for anyone who wishes to post about it not being reversible or the chances slim. Please research the truth out there & inform yourself of the other available options if success is not posing a promising outlook.
Please treat this thread accordingly, i do take this personally & utmost at heart. it is a very serious matter.
Regards,
Ryan
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